Post by marina on Feb 18, 2019 23:55:34 GMT
Hello lovely ladies.. back again after ages..
in 2 weeks it will be 3 years since I last saw my abusive ex boyfriend.. and I still feel like I didn’t do any step forward..
I moved country, I had a career, I made new friends, I did new things.. but still I think about him every single day..
i look at his sister Instagram, hoping to find a photo of him, I stare at his Facebook photo, I looked up at his LinkedIn profile and On it I found his phone number too... I know I should block him, I did it..but then I always want to go back.. I guess I was hoping to see him in trouble because he did to someone els3 what he did to me.. but it didn’t happen and so I feel like it was me, like it has always been my fault..
then I watch the photos of my injuries, I listen again to the abusive and threatening phone call he made me and I know it wasn’t me, but I still forget it so easily..
i never contacted him, I’d never go back to that hell..but God knows how much I miss him, well, not him..just the ideal him who never existed and that still haunts me..
i tried therapy, I tried mindfulness, yoga, meditation, I read books and I seeked for any possible type of help..I’ll be completely changing my life again in a month as I decided to go back to my own country after 5 years abroad..
what’s wrong with me? everything reminds me of him.. film, songs, random sentences said by people, photos I see..how can I forget him?? I think like I am going crazy, i’d Just want to bang my head against the wall until I stop thinking..
any advice?? I am really desperate, I don’t know what to do anymore..
in 2 weeks it will be 3 years since I last saw my abusive ex boyfriend.. and I still feel like I didn’t do any step forward..
I moved country, I had a career, I made new friends, I did new things.. but still I think about him every single day..
i look at his sister Instagram, hoping to find a photo of him, I stare at his Facebook photo, I looked up at his LinkedIn profile and On it I found his phone number too... I know I should block him, I did it..but then I always want to go back.. I guess I was hoping to see him in trouble because he did to someone els3 what he did to me.. but it didn’t happen and so I feel like it was me, like it has always been my fault..
then I watch the photos of my injuries, I listen again to the abusive and threatening phone call he made me and I know it wasn’t me, but I still forget it so easily..
i never contacted him, I’d never go back to that hell..but God knows how much I miss him, well, not him..just the ideal him who never existed and that still haunts me..
i tried therapy, I tried mindfulness, yoga, meditation, I read books and I seeked for any possible type of help..I’ll be completely changing my life again in a month as I decided to go back to my own country after 5 years abroad..
what’s wrong with me? everything reminds me of him.. film, songs, random sentences said by people, photos I see..how can I forget him?? I think like I am going crazy, i’d Just want to bang my head against the wall until I stop thinking..
any advice?? I am really desperate, I don’t know what to do anymore..