Post by sml on Feb 23, 2021 16:59:45 GMT
My daughter recently got a divorce. Her husband cannot let go. He was walking into her new apartment uninvited, he was bombing her cell phone, he has been using their daughter to control her, by not picking up the daughter on his weekend visitation, my daughter can never make plans cuz she never knows if he will pick up their daughter or not. I see he had posted on social media that he loves his daughter so much as he misses out on his weekend visit with her, and he doesn't pay the full child support. He admitted he missed out again.
Before I give more history I want to tell what happened today to get me upset today. This morning he posted on social media about his lecture (at church) He posted a video where he giving this lecture about Patience. When dealing with pure evil and just plain selfishness!!, I copied/pasted this, so it is his exclamation points. He is very angry. I am afraid he will hurt my daughter. He would feel justified as he lectures about pure evil and selfishness, I believe he would justify his actions by saying he didn't hurt a human being he was destroying evil and selfishness.
A little back ground. My daughter is young, beautiful, and she is younger than him. He was 40 when they got married, she was in mid twenties. The first time I met him was when my daughter married him. I traveled all the way to their state to attend their wedding. He yelled at me three different times. Every time he yelled at me it was his fault!! The first time he yelled at me was after the wedding ceremony. we were planning to go on a limo ride. Everyone piled into the limo and grabbed which ever seat, I took a seat near the back. His mom walked up last and there was no more room in the limo. She tried to climb in back to sit in the cargo section of limo. He yelled at me. He wanted me to climb into the cargo section and let his mom have my seat. He had his two sons sitting with him up front. He could have had his sons sit in the cargo section, and allow his mom to sit with him. Instead he yelled at me and wanted me to give up my seat and I should climb in the cargo section. After the wedding reception, we went to his house. He had invited a bunch of kids to come over. Then he took my daughter into the bedroom, and he closed the door. These kids were running his house. I don't know who these kids belong to? The kids were planning to go outside and run the neighborhood. I stopped them, and I kept the kids inside. I played with the kids to keep them busy. Finally he comes out of the bedroom and he yelled at me!! Because me and the kids were making a lot of noise playing. It was his fault! Why did he invite these kids over just so he could walk away and allow the kids to run wild? I never found out who those kids belong to.
While he was married to my daughter he would post smart alec posts, on social media, such as he doesn't need a dish washer...he has a wife. He posted that you have to keep the wife in the kitchen. He would wake her up 7am Sunday morning to cook his breakfast. If she didn't get up fast enough, he opened the blinds to shine the sun in her eyes. She would say she has to go potty and then she will cook. He said she has to cook first, and then she can go potty. He had her quit jobs because there were men employees at her job. Every Sunday after cooking breakfast she would cook their lunches for the week. She weighed out each serving to make sure it was 3 oz of chicken, 1/2 cup of rice, serving of vegetable. She put the lunches on TV dinner type trays and put it in the freezer so they could grab and get to work in the morning.
I think he sees her as property, and that is why he won't let go. I believe he also sees their daughter as property. He loves the daughter because she is his. But, he doesn't pay what he should pay in child support, and he doesn't keep his visitations. He brags on social media that he bought a condo on the ocean and he has a hot tub. Of course he has enough money when he is shorting the child support. He even dumped the dog on my daughter. He got the dog during the marriage. Now that the marriage is over he lost interest in the dog. My daughter lives with her daughter, and a big dog, and the cat, in an apartment. My daughter won't call the police if needed. She won't get a restraining order if needed. She said it could jeopardize her job, she would lose security clearance, and she could get fired, and have a track record. Since my daughter feels helpless I am thinking about posting on social media that if anything happens to her I know he did it. I would love to say he is not a victim. He is angry because he can't win this time. I would call their local police and tell them he did it, if anything happens to her. I feel too exhausted to write any more.
Before I give more history I want to tell what happened today to get me upset today. This morning he posted on social media about his lecture (at church) He posted a video where he giving this lecture about Patience. When dealing with pure evil and just plain selfishness!!, I copied/pasted this, so it is his exclamation points. He is very angry. I am afraid he will hurt my daughter. He would feel justified as he lectures about pure evil and selfishness, I believe he would justify his actions by saying he didn't hurt a human being he was destroying evil and selfishness.
A little back ground. My daughter is young, beautiful, and she is younger than him. He was 40 when they got married, she was in mid twenties. The first time I met him was when my daughter married him. I traveled all the way to their state to attend their wedding. He yelled at me three different times. Every time he yelled at me it was his fault!! The first time he yelled at me was after the wedding ceremony. we were planning to go on a limo ride. Everyone piled into the limo and grabbed which ever seat, I took a seat near the back. His mom walked up last and there was no more room in the limo. She tried to climb in back to sit in the cargo section of limo. He yelled at me. He wanted me to climb into the cargo section and let his mom have my seat. He had his two sons sitting with him up front. He could have had his sons sit in the cargo section, and allow his mom to sit with him. Instead he yelled at me and wanted me to give up my seat and I should climb in the cargo section. After the wedding reception, we went to his house. He had invited a bunch of kids to come over. Then he took my daughter into the bedroom, and he closed the door. These kids were running his house. I don't know who these kids belong to? The kids were planning to go outside and run the neighborhood. I stopped them, and I kept the kids inside. I played with the kids to keep them busy. Finally he comes out of the bedroom and he yelled at me!! Because me and the kids were making a lot of noise playing. It was his fault! Why did he invite these kids over just so he could walk away and allow the kids to run wild? I never found out who those kids belong to.
While he was married to my daughter he would post smart alec posts, on social media, such as he doesn't need a dish washer...he has a wife. He posted that you have to keep the wife in the kitchen. He would wake her up 7am Sunday morning to cook his breakfast. If she didn't get up fast enough, he opened the blinds to shine the sun in her eyes. She would say she has to go potty and then she will cook. He said she has to cook first, and then she can go potty. He had her quit jobs because there were men employees at her job. Every Sunday after cooking breakfast she would cook their lunches for the week. She weighed out each serving to make sure it was 3 oz of chicken, 1/2 cup of rice, serving of vegetable. She put the lunches on TV dinner type trays and put it in the freezer so they could grab and get to work in the morning.
I think he sees her as property, and that is why he won't let go. I believe he also sees their daughter as property. He loves the daughter because she is his. But, he doesn't pay what he should pay in child support, and he doesn't keep his visitations. He brags on social media that he bought a condo on the ocean and he has a hot tub. Of course he has enough money when he is shorting the child support. He even dumped the dog on my daughter. He got the dog during the marriage. Now that the marriage is over he lost interest in the dog. My daughter lives with her daughter, and a big dog, and the cat, in an apartment. My daughter won't call the police if needed. She won't get a restraining order if needed. She said it could jeopardize her job, she would lose security clearance, and she could get fired, and have a track record. Since my daughter feels helpless I am thinking about posting on social media that if anything happens to her I know he did it. I would love to say he is not a victim. He is angry because he can't win this time. I would call their local police and tell them he did it, if anything happens to her. I feel too exhausted to write any more.